My favorite Tough Love question from the last eight years, the one I (somewhat inexplicably) recall most fondly, was from a woman whose boyfriend was grossed out that she used a pee rag—a.k.a.

People seem to automatically assume that I don't put much time into writing this column. I don't know where they get such an idea. It's time-consuming, agonizing work, I tell you. Why, this column ...