When your iPhone's side button is not working, you can enable Assistive Touch to replicate its functionality. Go into Settings > Accessibility > Touch > Assistive Touch to turn on Assistive Touch.
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Send your questions for Stoya and Rich to howtodoit@slate.com. Dear How to Do It, I am a 40-something woman who has been with my husband for 20 years. We are ...